50 Truths in Black and White

As Valentine’s Day approaches, a lot of us are thinking about love, commitment, marriage, and a bunch of other heat-shaped topics. Unfortunately, this year we’re also plagued by a particularly sordid trend represented by the popular 50 Shades of Grey.

If you haven’t heard of 50 Shades of Grey (it’s possible!), check out the standard description of the book, or the movie (coming out on…Valentine’s Day). With labels like “erotic” and “s and m” you get a basic sense of why the story is so controversial.

As the title of the book suggests, the story explores many “shades” of sexual pleasure, morality, love, etc. According to the Word, there are not shades of right and wrong. There’s God’s way, and not-God’s-way.

So, in light of all the 50 Shades of Grey philosophizing going on, here are 50 basic, black and white truths to keep in mind:

  1. You were once alienated from God and His enemy because of your sin (Colossians 1:21)
  2. While you were His enemy, God sent His only son to reconcile you to Himself (Romans 5:8-10)
  3. Now you are in the light and ought to live as a child of the light (Ephesians 5:8)
  4. Children of the light have nothing to do with evil (Ephesians 5:11)
  5. Instead, they find out what pleases God (Ephesians 5:10)
  6. And you, child of God, should do everything to the Glory of God (Colossian 3:17)
  7. You’ll have to give account for every word you’ve spoken (Matthew 12:36)
  8. Every word of God proves true (Proverbs 30:5)
  9. Your false words, even when trying to be agreeable, can lead others astray (Ezekiel 13:10)

  10. Speaking the truth in love is the better way (Ephesians 4:15)
  11. But the truth, spoken without love, is just noise (1 Corinthians 13:1)
  12. It’s the fool who delights in airing opinion over understanding the truth (Proverbs 18:2)
  13. Your understanding is not complete, God’s Is. Lean on His (Proverbs 3:5)
  14. Even if it seems harmless, don’t engage in obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place (Ephesians 5:4)
  15. Likewise, don’t let there be even a hint of sexual immorality or any kind of impurity (Ephesians 5:3)
  16. And all this, like everything – for the glory of God (1 Corinthians 10:31)
  17. He alone is worthy of all that glory (Ephesians 3:20)
  18. You aren’t worthy (Matthew 5:20)
  19. That’s where grace comes in (Ephesians 2:8)
  20. So you can’t rightfully boast about your purity, your morals, your salvation, etc. (1 Corinthians 1:29)
  21. But you can boast in the Gospel of Jesus Christ (2 Corinthians 10:17)
  22. Further, you can boast about how you are weak, but His power is perfect (2 Corinthians 12:9)
  23. You can testify to the reason for your hope in this wretched world (1 Peter 3:15)
  24. Resting assured that though the world is wicked and troublesome, He has overcome it (John 16:33)
  25. So, in Christ, you can go confidently before the Lord (Hebrews 4:16)
  26. Petitioning in prayer rather than being anxious about what you see (Philippians 4:6)
  27. Knowing that temptation will plague you…
  28. …But need not overcome you (1 Corinthians 10:13)
  29. Even when it seems impossible, the Lord will always provide a way so that you don’t HAVE to sin (1 Corinthians 10:13)
  30. Jesus exemplified obeying God’s Word as counteracting the temptations of Satan (Matthew, Luke 4)
  31. Because, yes, sin is tempting even when you know God (Genesis 3)
  32. Supporting one another in pursing God’s Way helps (1 Thessalonians 5:11)
  33. His Word is also a sufficient guide, lighting the way (Psalm 119:105)
  34. Saying nothing when others stray from the way doesn’t help their soul…(Timothy 5:19)
  35. …restore them to the truth gently, with the help of the Holy Spirit (Galatians 6:1)
  36. In the process, check that there isn’t a log in your own eye (Matthew 7:3)
  37. Sin is sin to the Lord. Being pure but gossipy is still breaking God’s law (James 2:10)
  38. Speaking of gossip, it’s really enjoyable and easy to disguise as good (Proverbs 18:8)
  39. But gossip destroys relationships (Proverbs 16:28)
  40. Think instead about how you can motivate others toward love and good deeds (Hebrews 10:24)
  41. Watch as you walk with others that you are not tempted by their sin, though (Hebrews 6:1)
  42. They, even those who know God, may scoff at you and follow their evil desires (2 Peter 3)
  43. Do not be swayed to participate in any way in evil just because others are (Exodus 23:2)
  44. Instead, stand firm. Your labor (even your labors of love) are not in vain (1 Corinthians 15:58)
  45. The marriage bed is sacred, as is sex, which God made (Hebrews 13:4)
  46. The heart is to be guarded, for from it flows all things (Proverbs 4:23)
  47. And you –child of God- your treasure is in heaven, not the fleeting pleasures of this world (Matthew 6)
  48. If it’s under the sun, it’s going to pass away and be forgotten. His Word –and Your citizenship in heaven –those withstand (Ecclesiastes, Philippians 3:20)
  49. His love is perfect, and it drives out the fear that trends in our world instill (1 John 4:18)
  50. May he strengthen your hearts so that you will be blameless and holy in the presence of our God and Father when our Lord Jesus comes with all his holy ones (1 Thessalonians 3:13)

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